Thursday, February 28, 2013
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
A Big Blessing
When I was a kid there was a collection of music and stories on cassette tape that I LOVED. They were all packaged up neatly in a cheap plastic red case and just happened to be one of my prized possessions. I received them as a Christmas gift one year and I very nearly wore them out. I listened to them so often that to this day, I remember the stories, the sound of the voices and the songs.
Oh the songs! I loved them so.
They weren't flashy.
They weren't loud.
They weren't contemporary.
They were just songs.
But more than songs.
They were songs about Jesus. Songs about the Bible.
Sung by kids in simple harmony accompanied by soft music and a gentle beat.
They taught me to not just appreciate that kind of music but to love it.
To not just enjoy it, but to let it touch my soul.
And it did. Even as a child.
This collection was such a big deal to me that I began to search for it for Lydia.
I really wanted to share it with her.
To teach her early to enjoy music like this. To expose her to music besides the contemporary music of today. To train her ear and her heart to love music that goes deeper than the loud and steady beat music that "makes you want to move" (I'm not judging it, I listen to that too!)
But I want her to really see the pleasure in soft and simple harmony- just music about Jesus with nothing to distract from the message. It's peaceful. It's real. It's truth. It reaches the heart and calms the soul.
It also makes the home a relaxing place to be as the notes float softly in the air.
With that in mind, I was determined to find it. The search was on.
It didn't take me long to find it actually.
I was thrilled!
But.... to get what I wanted was gonna cost me.
I talked it over with the hubs and he agreed that music like that was rare and important to the training we wanted to give Lydia, so he was going to let me get it. Just the music collection.
That's really all I wanted for the time being so I was okay with that.
It was a lot of money but we both considered it an investment.
So, I clicked online.
There it was- for $100.
I knew I wanted it. I knew it was good. But $100?
Well, I was gonna do it. But I was gonna wait. I just didn't know if it was time.
A few days later I looked again.
I clicked on the music section and........
A little note "You can now get the WHOLE COLLECTION- 10 Cd's- for $30."
I gasped. I giggled. I didn't quite believe it.
So I called them.
The lady on the phone was so surprised she checked the website herself. Then spent 10 minutes hunting down someone who could explain why there was a note on the website that would offer the whole thing for 30 bucks. She came back on the phone and with surprise in her voice, said I could have it for that price but she wasn't sure where that note came from.
I gladly took them up on their ever so nice offer and paid my money.
I couldn't have been happier. I may have even danced around a bit (shhh, don't tell anyone.)
And I'm pretty sure I thanked God about 50 times.
Just for fun, I checked back not long after that, I believe it was the same day....note gone.
That note was just for me!
I considered it a blessing straight from God. Really I do.
I received the CD's in the mail a few days later and they are everything I remember.
They still bless my soul. I may even appreciate them more now than I did then.
The message in the songs- Real. True. Deep. Powerful.
The music- Beautiful. Peaceful. Worshipful. But somehow managing to appeal to a child.
So much better than some of the flimsy stuff that passes for music now. Especially children's music. Seriously, have you heard some it? Gag! How are kids supposed to learn what good music is and how to sing well with some of that ear-offending junk as examples? Sorry. Was that harsh?
Now our home is filled with soothing music, beautiful harmony and sweet voices- blending together in a soft rhythm- creating a calm and worshipful backdrop to the moments in our day- even when the toddler is "lifting her voice" in other ways.
Thankfully, however, she is already learning the songs, has her favorites, and takes time out throughout her play to lift her voice to sing along. I sing along too.
Here's the link to the CD's- CBH ministries.
TOTALLY worth even the $100.
Next, I'd like to get some of their story books and the whole collection of stories on CD.
(Which apparently they don't have all 10 CD's right now.) They would equally be a blessing because they are entertaining, have a good message and I really like the idea of LISTENING to stories sometimes as opposed to WATCHING them all the time.
Does the creative brain good, methinks. Worth the investment, I say.
However, we may wait on that a bit.
Soon though.
Monday, February 25, 2013
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
Just Don't Breathe

There is a soft green haze floating in the air at my house.
It's emanating from my mouth.
Apparently, according to local sources, this particular haze
is strong and hasn't been decreased by repeated attempts to
eradicate it by the normal methods of teeth brushing.
I have been eating onions a lot.
A lot A lot.
I can't seem to get enough of their yummy goodness.
I have decided they are the perfect food.
Low calorie.
Lots of health benefits.
And they taste great!
My preferred method is
Dice
Coat in olive oil
Give a generous dusting of garlic powder and onion powder
(to add to the breath stench)
Sprinkle with salt
and bake until soft, brown and oh so sweet and yummy.
I can literally make a meal out of it.
And I have been. Apparently, too much, too often.
All was going fine and dandy
and I was happy living in onion land.
But then....
One morning my sweet, kind, loving and full of tact husband and I were sitting on the couch talking.
I got too close.
He gasped, cringed, turned away from me and said,
"You stink!"
Oh, Honey, keep whispering sweet words of love in my ear. :)
That very same day, my dear, sweet, equally full of tact daughter came running up to me,
stopped and promptly turned away.
She said, "Mommy, you stink!"
You can shake off one person,
but hard to ignore two.
I guess my breath was getting a little.....potent, shall we say?
So, even though they haven't actually asked me to give up onions
(aren't they nice?)
I am going on an onion break. And I miss them!
Oh I miss them, ya'll!
Tonight I almost broke down and made some.
But I miss my daughters hugs and kisses and cuddles,
none of which she will let me share with her when I have onion breath.
She won't even willingly sit by me!
And having a husband who starts holding his breath when I come near him or try to get a kiss....
Not that romantic.
I mean, I like that I can still take his breath away, but I don't think stealing one's breath via onions
has the same romantic thrill.
But it has not been without its romantic moments.
My dear sweet man, in spite of the fact that he doesn't like the side effects of the onion addiction, has been very supportive because of the health benefits and such.
He even BOUGHT me onions.
Two nice big, juicy, purple onions full of potent goodness.
Who would have thought that romantic gifts would come in the form of an onion?
But seriously, when he lovingly handed them to me after his shopping trip with a handsome, full of love smile on his face, I almost had tears in my eyes (and not from the onions.)
A more sweet gesture would be hard to find.
He loves me enough to buy me onions.
I love that man.
And I love my onions!
Tomorrow's Menu-
Onions with a side of mouth wash. :)
Monday, February 18, 2013
What Love Looks Like Part 2
No post about lasting love would be complete without a post on my grandparents.
To the world a romantic picture is a couple, young and in love, and in some cases, plastered together in a passionate embrace.
Although possibly more ascetically appealing to some, it is not a picture of romance to me.
A picture of romance is a picture of two people who have spent a life time together and are still in love. A couple who has stood the test of time. Weathered the storms, shared the joy. Walked the journey of life together, for better and for worse.
And hasn't quit.
That is romance.
That is my grandparents.
For all their married life they have worked hard, loved hard and lived well.
They are an amazing example of what love should be. What it can be.
My grandfather has been a hard worker all his life.
He built the house they live in to this day with his own hands right after they were married. He has worked hard for everything they have.
He has provided for, loved, sacrificed and cared for his family and the people around him all his life.
He didn't quit.
Then he got sick.
And grandma, who had always worked hard herself, tending to her family, her home and a ragtag bunch of other people that filtered in and out her life, turned her attention to caring mostly for her husband.
She hasn't stopped.
Her care for the man who always cared for her is a task she stays about.
Most days it's hard. Most days she moves past the pain in her body and the weariness in her heart and loves by serving.
Such has been her life.
And still they love together, still they smile, still they laugh. Still they bring joy to all who come near.
Through the hard stuff, through the good stuff, through raising their family, through a lifetime of service to their family and their church and their God, they have loved.
Grandpa, do you know that everything you worked for, every sacrifice you made, every caring word and deed you have done (and there have been so many) is not just appreciated but remembered? If they aren't all remembered by the people whose lives you have touched (how can people remember so many special things done by one person?) they are most certainly remembered and recorded by our God?
Do you know that you are a hero? Better than any superhero to me.
Do you that you are the most special man I have ever met and I am blessed by the love and gentleness you have always shown me and your family?
Do you know how much you are respected by so many people because of the little and big things you did every day?
Grandma. Do you know that the work you have done all your life matters?
Do you know that the work you do now is not unnoticed?
The work you do now is great and meaningful and worth far more than you will ever know.
Press on, weary soul, it is not in vain.
Do you know that you are the joy of my heart? My friend, my prayer warrior, my highest goal of the woman I want to be? Do you know you are appreciated and loved beyond belief?
Do you know that your tender touches, your gentle guidence, your sacrifices and everything you do has always meant the world to me and has helped shape and define my life?
Both of you- Do you know that all you have done and all you do will be rewarded? There is a special crown in heaven for you for the life you've lived.
God sees all you've done. And it has all been for His glory.
Your lives and the love you have for each other and those around you IS the living example to me of 1 Corinthians 13. You do all with love.
And you are loved for it.
To the world a romantic picture is a couple, young and in love, and in some cases, plastered together in a passionate embrace.
Although possibly more ascetically appealing to some, it is not a picture of romance to me.
A picture of romance is a picture of two people who have spent a life time together and are still in love. A couple who has stood the test of time. Weathered the storms, shared the joy. Walked the journey of life together, for better and for worse.
And hasn't quit.
That is romance.
That is my grandparents.
For all their married life they have worked hard, loved hard and lived well.
They are an amazing example of what love should be. What it can be.
My grandfather has been a hard worker all his life.
He built the house they live in to this day with his own hands right after they were married. He has worked hard for everything they have.
He has provided for, loved, sacrificed and cared for his family and the people around him all his life.
He didn't quit.
Then he got sick.
And grandma, who had always worked hard herself, tending to her family, her home and a ragtag bunch of other people that filtered in and out her life, turned her attention to caring mostly for her husband.
She hasn't stopped.
Her care for the man who always cared for her is a task she stays about.
Most days it's hard. Most days she moves past the pain in her body and the weariness in her heart and loves by serving.
Such has been her life.
And still they love together, still they smile, still they laugh. Still they bring joy to all who come near.
Through the hard stuff, through the good stuff, through raising their family, through a lifetime of service to their family and their church and their God, they have loved.
Grandpa, do you know that everything you worked for, every sacrifice you made, every caring word and deed you have done (and there have been so many) is not just appreciated but remembered? If they aren't all remembered by the people whose lives you have touched (how can people remember so many special things done by one person?) they are most certainly remembered and recorded by our God?
Do you know that you are a hero? Better than any superhero to me.
Do you that you are the most special man I have ever met and I am blessed by the love and gentleness you have always shown me and your family?
Do you know how much you are respected by so many people because of the little and big things you did every day?
Grandma. Do you know that the work you have done all your life matters?
Do you know that the work you do now is not unnoticed?
The work you do now is great and meaningful and worth far more than you will ever know.
Press on, weary soul, it is not in vain.
Do you know that you are the joy of my heart? My friend, my prayer warrior, my highest goal of the woman I want to be? Do you know you are appreciated and loved beyond belief?
Do you know that your tender touches, your gentle guidence, your sacrifices and everything you do has always meant the world to me and has helped shape and define my life?
Both of you- Do you know that all you have done and all you do will be rewarded? There is a special crown in heaven for you for the life you've lived.
God sees all you've done. And it has all been for His glory.
Your lives and the love you have for each other and those around you IS the living example to me of 1 Corinthians 13. You do all with love.
And you are loved for it.
Thank you, God, for these special treasures, priceless jewels, in my life.
What Love Looks Like
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| Come Grow Old With Me, The Best Is Yet To Be! True Love Never Ends |
It was an explanation and practical living guide on 1 Corithians 13 for our marriages and family.
I read it and decided I needed to keep it where I could see it.
So I took it.
The words convicted me to the core. I cringed and groaned and "ouched" my way through it and thought about how often I fall oh so short of displaying that type of love to my husband.
I have it written in the back of my Bible now and it has been a source of encouragement and challenge to me ever since.
Encouragement because this love isn't just how we are to love others, it's an example of how Christ loves us.
Challenging because love like this doesn't come easy.
In today's world, in today's marriages...in our homes, in our community, in our churches...this type of love is a high standard not often thought of, let alone aimed for, and far to rarely achieved and practiced.
Love is such a flighty concept in our culture. Shallow. Empty. And all together to easily thrown away.
How many people around us even know what real, true love is?
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| True love grows with the years. |
What a tragic tale of a society who has left true love behind because it gets hard- finding temporary passions and emotions a sufficient substitute for a short time, no matter how cheap it is, because it just seems like less work.
Love, in it's true form is never shallow, empty and discarded.
It is deep, full and never ending. Committed, faithful and strong.
But yes, it takes work.
1 Corinthians 13- the love chapter- is the true love test.
It calls to the heart to love deeper than it could go on its own.
Honestly, we can only achieve this love through the help of the very One who created love and also commanded this kind of love in the hearts of His believers. He sets a high goal for us and only He can help us reach it.
A love that is portrayed in this manner can only be lived out from a heart that has Christ at its center. If Christ is not King there, these love qualities cannot exist within.
It is not in our human capacity to be characterized by a love like this.
It is a love that goes against every fiber of our natural flesh.
It is completely contrary to the world's viewpoint. It is totally opposite of fleshly thinking.
Those who live by the flesh do not and cannot understand it. They may even resist and mock it, it being so contrary to their heart and mindset. The world just simply doesn't get it.
But for the believer- we are called to more, commanded to be more.
We are to love like Christ. Live the love out like Christ.
His love for us demands that we exemplify His love to others.
We are to let our lives be shaped by it, our attitudes be changed by it, our actions characterized by it, our thoughts purified by it, our words tamed by it, our hearts purified because of it.
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The following is the article I
I have no idea who wrote it (I'm guessing our pastor?) or where it originated from but it's good stuff.
How To Have A Good Marriage Based On 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
Love...
Suffers long Patient, over and over again, no matter how many times they offend or mess up
Kind merciful, considerate, extends kindness even when it is not deserved
Does not envy Doesn't get jealous "You always get your way" "You always get what you want"
"We always do what you want to do" "What about me?"
Does not parade itself not boastful Doesn't say "I told you so"
Not puffed up Not arrogant or prideful, doesn't think one should be above another or is better than the other
Not rude unbecoming, doesn't ignore, interrupt, devalue or easily pass off what the other says as unimportant
Does not seek it's own self centered, insists on your own way "My way is best, do it my way!"
Not easily provoked angered easily, irritable, never seeks to intentionally hurt. No temper flares when wronged or when disagreed with or annoyed.
Does not think evil Keeps no record of wrongs, doesn't bring up the past.
"You did this.." "You always..."
Never thinks the worst of the other person.
Does not rejoice in iniquity Doesn't get happy when the other person does something wrong so you can point a finger and say "You do it too!"
Rejoices in the truth Takes pleasure in good, encourages each other in righteousness. Always promotes good in your own life and in the life of the other individual.
Bears all things patiently endures all wrong committed against them. Doesn't try to get even.
Believes all things Has faith and trust in the other person.
"I believe you can be all God wants you to be and I will help you get there" "I believe our marriage will be better."
Hopes all things An expectant hope. Expects good will come. Expects good in the other person. Expects good in the marriage. Expects God to work.
"As I become what God wants me to be in our marriage, He will bless our home."
Endures all things Puts up with all things. Big and small annoyances.
Remains steadfast. Will never leave.
Love them no matter what they do or how they act, because no matter what you do, Christ always loves you.
Side note: Sadly, because of the world we live in, I have to add this. Certainly in the case of physical abuse, it is wise to seek protection and council. That is an entirely different set of circumstances.
Never fails Never quits. Never gives up on the other.
"I will always love you."
"I will always love God."
For further reading that goes along with this in some ways, read this article. Full of great advice on how to have a more loving marriage.
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| Still havin' fun living life together. |
Thursday, February 14, 2013
A Great Big Love
See what great love the Father has lavished on us...
1 John 3:1
...in me he takes delight. Psalms 18:19
He will rejoice over you with gladness, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing.
Zephaniah 3:17
...while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:8
...abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness.
Psalms 86:15
[Nothing] shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:39
This Valentine's Day, while celebrating the love God has blessed Vincent and I with, I am also focusing my attention on God's love for me. And His love for all those who have believed upon His name and have come into a relationship with Him. A loving, intimate, life-changing, all-consuming, loving way-down deep in your soul kind of love relationship.
In reading what the Bible tells me about God's love for me I can only sit in awe.
Why would such a holy God love me so much? Why would a perfect God love someone so imperfect?
Because it is His charachter. Because it is His heart. Because He chooses to.
Scripture says that God IS love. He is the source of it. The spring from which it flows. The highest example of it. The very reason it exisits. The very reason we can love others.
It is the only perfect, unconditional, unswerving, faithful to all eternity-love.
And it's aimed at me. At you.
The God of all eternity. The King of all Kings, Ruler of all.
The God who is all-seeing, all-knowing.
He has seen and known me, in the places of my heart where no one else sees- the good, the bad and the very ugly- and He love me.
He has seen my very best and known my very worst-
and He has chosen to LOVE me.
Not just in a quiet way but...
*He lavished (an extravagent bestowing) love on me. Extravagant love.
*He delights (with great joy) in me. With heartfelt pleasure.
*He rejoics over me with gladness and singing. When He looks at me it makes His heart sing.
*He loved me so much He died for me. While I was at the most unworthy of that love.
*He abounds (fully suppliled, to the fullest amount) in steadfast (fixed, unchanging, steady, firm) love. For me.
*Nothing can tear us apart. Nothing can make Him stop loving me. Nothing.
That's the love of my God for little ole undeserving me.
That's the love of God for all of His undeserving people.
Every day, at your greatest moment.
And every minute of your life, even at your lowest point,
At your best and at your worst-
GOD LOVES YOU!
Completley, Amazingly, Boundlessly, Extravagently, Unfailingly, Joyfully.
Without exception.
In the moments you are doing great things for Him and in the mundane, everyday tasks.
The moments of glory and the times you are down in the trenches, struggling, fighting, hurting, doing the hard stuff.
Wherever you are, whatever you are doing
that task is made lighter with the perspective that at that moment,
God is looking at you with love and delight shining from His eyes.
Because of that love we, as His children, are guarenteed
Help
Hope
Peace
Comfort
Strength
Refuge
Forgiveness
Wholeness
Joy
Abundant life
His righteousness
Grace
Protection
Care
Freedom
Significance
Adoption into His Kingdom as a child of God
An eternity with Him
And so much more!
Thank you, Lord, for your love!
On such love, my soul still ponder,
Love so rich, so great, so free;
Say, while lost in holy wonder,
“Why, O Lord, such love to me?”~ Kent
***
The Love of God, how rich and strong,
Forever faithful-eternity long.
It will not falter, it will not fail,
Sent Son to die and save from hell.
What a loving Father, what a friend,
That loves a man in darkness of sin. ~ ?
Click on the link below to hear
A Little More of God's Love
1 John 3:1
...in me he takes delight. Psalms 18:19
He will rejoice over you with gladness, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing.
Zephaniah 3:17
...while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:8
...abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness.
Psalms 86:15
[Nothing] shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:39
This Valentine's Day, while celebrating the love God has blessed Vincent and I with, I am also focusing my attention on God's love for me. And His love for all those who have believed upon His name and have come into a relationship with Him. A loving, intimate, life-changing, all-consuming, loving way-down deep in your soul kind of love relationship.
In reading what the Bible tells me about God's love for me I can only sit in awe.
Why would such a holy God love me so much? Why would a perfect God love someone so imperfect?
Because it is His charachter. Because it is His heart. Because He chooses to.
Scripture says that God IS love. He is the source of it. The spring from which it flows. The highest example of it. The very reason it exisits. The very reason we can love others.
It is the only perfect, unconditional, unswerving, faithful to all eternity-love.
And it's aimed at me. At you.
The God of all eternity. The King of all Kings, Ruler of all.
The God who is all-seeing, all-knowing.
He has seen and known me, in the places of my heart where no one else sees- the good, the bad and the very ugly- and He love me.
He has seen my very best and known my very worst-
and He has chosen to LOVE me.
Not just in a quiet way but...
*He lavished (an extravagent bestowing) love on me. Extravagant love.
*He delights (with great joy) in me. With heartfelt pleasure.
*He rejoics over me with gladness and singing. When He looks at me it makes His heart sing.
*He loved me so much He died for me. While I was at the most unworthy of that love.
*He abounds (fully suppliled, to the fullest amount) in steadfast (fixed, unchanging, steady, firm) love. For me.
*Nothing can tear us apart. Nothing can make Him stop loving me. Nothing.
That's the love of my God for little ole undeserving me.
That's the love of God for all of His undeserving people.
Every day, at your greatest moment.
And every minute of your life, even at your lowest point,
At your best and at your worst-
GOD LOVES YOU!
Completley, Amazingly, Boundlessly, Extravagently, Unfailingly, Joyfully.
Without exception.
In the moments you are doing great things for Him and in the mundane, everyday tasks.
The moments of glory and the times you are down in the trenches, struggling, fighting, hurting, doing the hard stuff.
Wherever you are, whatever you are doing
that task is made lighter with the perspective that at that moment,
God is looking at you with love and delight shining from His eyes.
Because of that love we, as His children, are guarenteed
Help
Hope
Peace
Comfort
Strength
Refuge
Forgiveness
Wholeness
Joy
Abundant life
His righteousness
Grace
Protection
Care
Freedom
Significance
Adoption into His Kingdom as a child of God
An eternity with Him
And so much more!
Thank you, Lord, for your love!
On such love, my soul still ponder,
Love so rich, so great, so free;
Say, while lost in holy wonder,
“Why, O Lord, such love to me?”~ Kent
***
The Love of God, how rich and strong,
Forever faithful-eternity long.
It will not falter, it will not fail,
Sent Son to die and save from hell.
What a loving Father, what a friend,
That loves a man in darkness of sin. ~ ?
Click on the link below to hear
A Little More of God's Love
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
A Loved Little Girl
This is a picture from yesterday. Just a random moment in the day.
She wanted me to take her picture
So, of course, I did.
Sometimes I look at a picture of her and I think,
"She's getting so big."
Where does the time go?
As she grows, I teach her many things.
But above all- I want her to KNOW.
That she is loved.
Little girl, you are so loved.
May you always know that.
Not just loved by Mommy and Daddy.
Not just loved by your family and friends.
(And you are LOVED SO MUCH by us.)
But, please Precious One,
may you always know
that you are LOVED SO MUCH
by Jesus.
Remember this truth all your life.
It will shape you
and make you live life differently
than those around you who don't know this truth.
Learn this truth, be changed by this truth.
Live your life in the knowledge and comfort and
influence of the fact...
YOU ARE LOVED
And because you are loved- by the King of the Universe-
you can confidently and boldly
proclaim-
I saw this picture on Facebook.
It is my prayer
that Lydia will understand
and believe this for her life.
That she will live in the light of the truth of these words.
Because of His love this is true.
Because of His love
it is true for her.
Always.
No matter what.
Sunday, February 10, 2013
Friday, February 8, 2013
Failure Isn't Final
When I was growing up I had sort of a "God's gonna get me" perspective on things.
I thought that if I sinned, I would be forgiven but I would certainly reap some bad stuff because I had done bad stuff.
If I had done something bad I would lay in bed thinking about all the bad things that could happen to me because of what I'd done.
I was basically waiting for God to squish me like a bug.
And really, that's what I deserved. What we all deserve.
We deserve nothing less than severe punishment because we are all sinners.
The Bible says that sin must be punished. Even "little" sin, as we so categorize it.
Next to a holy God all sin is an affront to His holiness. All sin is worthy of death when brought before a righteous and perfect judge.
And God, as Judge must lay done a sentence. He must require something to clear our record.
Adequate payment must be made for sin. And we can't pay it.
But Christ can. And He did.
He chose to take the punishment we deserved and pay the debt on our account.
He chose to give us His righteousness and take our sin so we could be seen as righteous before the Judge and we wouldn't experience the punishment, or squishing if you will, that we deserve.
We don't have to be punished because Christ was punished in our place.
There are ample examples in the Bible of the fact that God doesn't just want to "squish" us when we mess up and thinking that way can only come from a very misunderstood view of God and His grace.
When we fall, He readily and lovingly forgives.
"Squishing" us would be against the work He did on the cross and would defeat His overall work and purpose in our lives.
He takes the mess-ups and uses them to show us more of His grace and mercy so that we may better know Him and love Him and praise Him.
And then He begins again- molding and reshaping us to become more Christ-like, more holy.
For our good and for His glory.
We deserve to be "squished" but Christ wants far more from us than to give us what we deserve.
That's what He went to the cross for.
Failures may happen. In a moment, at a weak point. We may slip.
When they do- confess it, forsake it and move on.
When you fall- take the hand extended to help you back up, stand and continue on your way with Christ. The One who bore your sin so you could stand again.
The One who took your punishment so you could be forgiven and free from the sentence of death.
When you understand this, you begin to understand the true love of Christ, the richness of His grace, the fullness of His mercy, the completeness of His forgiveness.
And in understanding this, How can you not but go on from the place He picked you up and do mighty things for the One who has extended so much to you?
How can you not go on from there to serve Him with your whole heart in His Kingdom?
The Kingdom He created.
The Kingdom He rules.
The Kingdom He has given to you to share with Him.
The Kingdom made up of countless others who have failed- only to come face to face with His full and free forgiveness.
Paul found that forgiveness after a life of sin and spent the rest of his life proclaiming Christ to the world so they would find that forgiveness too.
Peter found that forgiveness after grave denial and went on to found the church.
David found that forgiveness after a huge mess up and became a man after God's own heart.
Praise the Lord life doesn't end when we are weak and fallen.
Praise God failure isn't final, because our flesh is prone to much faltering.
But in Christ-because of what He has done- there is more than just an escape from getting "squished".
The path from failure can lead to greater faithfulness and service, onward to become who God wants you to be, fulfilling His purposes in you. IF we accept the forgiveness He offers and choose to press on.
Failure can be but a stepping stone to a greater and higher calling in your life.
IF you let it go, leave it on the wayside and let God use it to refine you and reshape you to better become the instrument He desires you to be for His service.
He is faithful to forgive.
He is faithful to keep us from being "squished".
He is faithful in taking our mistakes and making miracles.
The definition of grace is receiving what we don't deserve. Our freedom from punishment.
Mercy is not receiving what we do deserve. Death.
Great is the Lord in both grace and mercy. Exceedingly, abundantly.
And it's for us. Each time we fail.
It is that grace that makes us stand when we have fallen.
Stand, not on wobbly legs, fearful of the consequences, but a confident, firm planting of the feet on the solid ground of His love.
One final thought from our pastor:
Grace is bigger than we can comprehend.
We can stand completely justified and completely righteous before a Holy King and Judge of all eternity only because of grace.
Have you thanked Him today for that grace?
I thought that if I sinned, I would be forgiven but I would certainly reap some bad stuff because I had done bad stuff.
If I had done something bad I would lay in bed thinking about all the bad things that could happen to me because of what I'd done.
I was basically waiting for God to squish me like a bug.
And really, that's what I deserved. What we all deserve.
We deserve nothing less than severe punishment because we are all sinners.
The Bible says that sin must be punished. Even "little" sin, as we so categorize it.
Next to a holy God all sin is an affront to His holiness. All sin is worthy of death when brought before a righteous and perfect judge.
And God, as Judge must lay done a sentence. He must require something to clear our record.
Adequate payment must be made for sin. And we can't pay it.
But Christ can. And He did.
He chose to take the punishment we deserved and pay the debt on our account.
He chose to give us His righteousness and take our sin so we could be seen as righteous before the Judge and we wouldn't experience the punishment, or squishing if you will, that we deserve.
We don't have to be punished because Christ was punished in our place.
There are ample examples in the Bible of the fact that God doesn't just want to "squish" us when we mess up and thinking that way can only come from a very misunderstood view of God and His grace.
When we fall, He readily and lovingly forgives.
"Squishing" us would be against the work He did on the cross and would defeat His overall work and purpose in our lives.
He takes the mess-ups and uses them to show us more of His grace and mercy so that we may better know Him and love Him and praise Him.
And then He begins again- molding and reshaping us to become more Christ-like, more holy.
For our good and for His glory.
We deserve to be "squished" but Christ wants far more from us than to give us what we deserve.
That's what He went to the cross for.
Failures may happen. In a moment, at a weak point. We may slip.
When they do- confess it, forsake it and move on.
When you fall- take the hand extended to help you back up, stand and continue on your way with Christ. The One who bore your sin so you could stand again.
The One who took your punishment so you could be forgiven and free from the sentence of death.
When you understand this, you begin to understand the true love of Christ, the richness of His grace, the fullness of His mercy, the completeness of His forgiveness.
And in understanding this, How can you not but go on from the place He picked you up and do mighty things for the One who has extended so much to you?
How can you not go on from there to serve Him with your whole heart in His Kingdom?
The Kingdom He created.
The Kingdom He rules.
The Kingdom He has given to you to share with Him.
The Kingdom made up of countless others who have failed- only to come face to face with His full and free forgiveness.
Paul found that forgiveness after a life of sin and spent the rest of his life proclaiming Christ to the world so they would find that forgiveness too.
Peter found that forgiveness after grave denial and went on to found the church.
David found that forgiveness after a huge mess up and became a man after God's own heart.
Praise the Lord life doesn't end when we are weak and fallen.
Praise God failure isn't final, because our flesh is prone to much faltering.
But in Christ-because of what He has done- there is more than just an escape from getting "squished".
The path from failure can lead to greater faithfulness and service, onward to become who God wants you to be, fulfilling His purposes in you. IF we accept the forgiveness He offers and choose to press on.
Failure can be but a stepping stone to a greater and higher calling in your life.
IF you let it go, leave it on the wayside and let God use it to refine you and reshape you to better become the instrument He desires you to be for His service.
He is faithful to forgive.
He is faithful to keep us from being "squished".
He is faithful in taking our mistakes and making miracles.
The definition of grace is receiving what we don't deserve. Our freedom from punishment.
Mercy is not receiving what we do deserve. Death.
Great is the Lord in both grace and mercy. Exceedingly, abundantly.
And it's for us. Each time we fail.
It is that grace that makes us stand when we have fallen.
Stand, not on wobbly legs, fearful of the consequences, but a confident, firm planting of the feet on the solid ground of His love.
One final thought from our pastor:
Grace is bigger than we can comprehend.
We can stand completely justified and completely righteous before a Holy King and Judge of all eternity only because of grace.
Have you thanked Him today for that grace?
Thursday, February 7, 2013
What God Has Made
Again.
And again. And again.
It's February. I guess I should expect that.
But still, I see the forecast, I look at the gray sky... and groan.
Enough already I say.
There has been snow on the ground for longer than I like lately. And just when it melts away, new snow comes. Like I said, I live in Michigan. I should expect this.
But I struggle.
I think snow is beautiful. There is, in fact, an almost serene and calm that settles over the world as the fluffy flakes fall silently to the earth in an erratic pattern, almost dancing as they make their way from the clouds to the cold ground.
It makes the world seem clean, covering imperfections and the deadness that winter brings. It even makes the world sparkle a little bit.
But in spite of that I struggle.
Because snow is only pretty for a while. Then it gets dirty and messed up and it doesn't sparkle anymore.
Snow makes it hard to get around as easily. Snow keeps me in the house more.
You have to bundle up to go even to the mailbox.
Coats, hats, gloves, boots.
It's all good for awhile. Until February.
It's also usually the time we get the most snow.
So yesterday I look outside and the flakes are swirling and whirling in their quiet, slow but steady dance.
And I say, "I am so tired of this. I don't want anymore snow".
And then. In the quiet recesses of my mind a thought occurs to me.
God made this snow. He made it fall in my town. He knows what it's doing outside- He did it!
So I shouldn't complain.
He directs the snow to fall on the earth
and tells the rain to pour down. Job 37:6 NLT
That being the case, what right do I have to complain when He chooses to direct the snow to my back porch?
What makes me think I should get my way and have no more snow when God desires that the snow fall?
I've caught myself so many times.
That complaining spirit about snow is down deep-deeper than the snow in my yard.
But what does complaining about something say? It says, "I don't trust God to be doing a good thing." If we thought it was good we wouldn't complain.
Complaining communicates that what we want is more important to us than what God deems right.
In other words, we get whiny.
We, as mere flesh, too easily find fault with the way God chooses to do things. That's really the heart of complaining, isn't it? We focus on our discomfort. We focus on our desires not being met. We focus on what we wish were the case, how we think it should be.
We don't focus on the Divine.
How much less complaining would be done if our perspective on our circumstances were different?
This isn't just the case with the big things. I think we are just as apt, if not more so, to complain about the minor inconveniences, the small stuff, the little things, than the big things. Things that mess with our day. Things that interrupt our plans. Things that irritate. Slow us down. Wreck our schedule.
Things like too much snow.
Boy, those things can irk.
But what if God has so chosen some of those things? What if God has designed a certain path for you that you may not find the most comfortable?
Therein lies the choice. Complaining or Contentment.
Our trust in God's goodness and wisdom- where we set our focus in a situation, these will determine which choice we make. In blizzards and flurries alike.
Will we see the sparkly, pure beauty of the moment and experience peace?
Or will we see the slushy, dirty snow, feel the cold and miss the beauty of what God has made, what He has done entirely?
Tomorrow then, I will look out my window, see what God has made and I will say..."it is good."
And I'll mean it.
Lydia watching the snow.
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